Blaming and complaining have become a global sport….
I wonder if they are going to be included in the upcoming Olympics this year…???
People are BLAMING everyone else for everything….
Kind of scary when you remember that we ALL possess the FREEDOM TO CHOOSE whatever we feel serves us best…and that ULTIMATELY we are the only ones responsbile for the choices that we make…
When we assign blame and complain about something or someone of outside of ourselves….
How are OTHER PEOPLE perceiving us…???
Earlier this week…Nancy Marmolejo wrote a brilliant blog post about Handling The Truth…
In her post she asks if the "Truth" is actually the "Truth" or hidden anger about the way the "GURUs" have been marketing to people…
Yesterday Diane Hochman took a different cut at this very same topic digging into…
AUTHENTICALLY building a list of raving fans versus building a list by driving traffic for the sake of driving traffic by using inauthentic content…. which has resulted in the demise of many good people over the past couple of years…
Today…I read Michel Fortin's blog post "On Not Playing The Blame Game"….
He asks a very simple question…"Is the Internet Marketing Industry Imploding…???"
Here are some FACTS that you need to really GRASP RIGHT NOW….
The Government – the FTC – has stepped in with new rules cracking down on misleading advertising
The penalties are HUMONGOUS if you get caught….
Google is shutting down AdWords accounts left and right ….
That's really bad news if you haven't built a TRIBE of RAVING FANS that you communicate with regularly …
Guess what..???…
YOU JUST WENT OUT OF BUSINESS because you have no way to COMMUNICATE with those people to send them any of your money getting offers….
All of those charming… "Is So..and..So Really A Scam" ezine articles, videos and advertising campaigns from a couple of years ago have left their creators swinging in the wind with NO BUSINESS left….
WHY…???
Because it is UNIVERSAL LAW THAT WHAT YOU GIVE TO OTHERS IS RETURNED TO YOU….
If you BUILD a list of "RAVING FANS' using inauthentic methods…You GET a list of "INAUTHENTIC" people that will drop you quicker than a burning hot potato the minute they see the next bright shiny object coming their way…
Customer, client and team loyalty happens ONLY when people get to know you….like you … and TRUST YOU.
If you are one of those people that is complaining that they have been mislead or scammed….
DO something about it…
Complaining is NOT doing something about anything…it is a waste of energy and reputation…it marks you as UN-TRUSTWORTHY
Afterall….would YOU do business with a person that was badmouthing someone else to YOU…???
I wouldn't …. because how do I know that they won't do the same thing to ME….???
Here is what you can do RIGHT NOW to avoid the upcoming Internet Marketing Tsunami…
Take a REALLY hard look inside yourself to see if YOU really were mislead…ripped-off…whatever you want to call it…whateever you are complaining about…
Who knows…maybe you did you not get the "promised"results because you didn't DO what YOU were SUPPOSED TO DO to get those results…???
What were your motivations…make $10,000 in 30 days with no experience…website…or technical skills..??? Hate to be this blunt…but you were just being lazy and greedy…In your HEART you knew it was "too good to be true…" … scarcity mindset and a lottery mentality DON'T produce good results…
YOU are responsible for all of YOUR actions, thoughts and decisions….NOONE ELSE…
Take ownership of that…TODAY…
Clean the crap out of your mind … your heart… and your inbox…
People cannot market to you if you usubscribe from their "LIST" ….
If they don't provide you with relevant, useful, high value content to supplement their promotions…UNSUBSCRIBE….
They have not earned YOUR TRUST or YOUR MONEY…
YOU ARE NOT SOMEONE ELSE'S ATM MACHINE ….
YOU ARE A VALUABLE HUMAN BEING…..
Don't YOU DARE let anyone treat you like a commodity…
If YOU are marketing JUNK to your "LIST" like it is your personal ATM machine… STOP IT RIGHT NOW…
CLEAN UP YOUR MESS and do whatever you need to do to build a real business before it is too late…
The simple law of economy works like this…
If you don't buy stuff from these folks any more…they have two choices… CLEAN IT UP OR CLOSE IT UP…
A business is not in business for very long if it doesn't sell product…
YOU can starve these bad business people OUT OF BUSINESS if you DON'T GIVE THEM YOUR MONEY…
If you made a bad choice…a bad decision…
STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT IT… LEARN THE LESSON YOU ARE MEANT TO LEARN and GO FORWARD…
What is DONE is IN THE PAST…
When you are complaining about how you got ripped off..how you got hurt…
You are BLEEDING…and there is NOTHING more exiting and enticing than the scent of FRESH HOT BLOOD to a pack of HUNGRY animals…
Why do you think that so many scammers get away with what they get away with…???
They can smell you bleeding from a mile away…And they know that DINNER is waiting for them…
You will NEVER HEAR A LEADER COMPLAIN ABOUT ANYTHING…
EVERYTHING IS A LESSON TO BE USED FOR SELF IMPROVEMENT AND LEARNING…
LEADERS DON'T BLEED…
THEY FEED….
SO THAT THEY CAN LEAD ….
THOSE IN NEED….
Here is some Jungle Wisdom from The Great Joe Schroeder… Take some time to think about it over the weekend...
In the jungle…all animals have this message embeded into their brains and it is this…
"If you see a hurt or dying animal, go eat it and wash the jungle clean of other beasts who can no longer duplicate, thrive and help keep the natural balance of the forest."
The Wisdom of the Jungle is such that "If you are dying or hurt, we will help you out of your misery and eat you"…That's why TIGERS kill and eat their own wounded cubs…
Human wiring is similar…When people hear other people complaining…those people are considered to be DYING…
Losers talk about what happened TO them and also they talk about what happened to them yesterday. Winners on the other hand, only talk about WHERE they are going and tomorrow.
Most people complain about things which THEY PERMIT…
There really is GREAT NEWS here for anyone that can hear the message…
You can build a PHENOMONAL, super successful business by being an ETHICAL MARKETER…
An entrepreneur that is serving the GREATER GOOD by first seeking to serve and help others…
By offering ONLY the highest quality products and services that truly benefit other people by solving their problems…
So that they truly become RAVING FANS and LOYAL customers…clients….and business partners….
To quote the GREAT Diane Hochman…
"Caring for people above and beyond my business decisions IS a business decision.…"
And in my humble opinion…
It is the one business decision that should guide all of the rest of the business decisions that we make…
LOVE to hear what YOU have to say about this…
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Great post Rose. I agree that many online “Gurus” need to take a good hard look at which path their leading their followers down.
Lead with authenticity and honesty and it will take you far!
Great post Rose. I agree that many online “Gurus” need to take a good hard look at which path their leading their followers down.
Lead with authenticity and honesty and it will take you far!
Great post Rose. I agree that many online “Gurus” need to take a good hard look at which path their leading their followers down.
Lead with authenticity and honesty and it will take you far!
Great post Rose. I agree that many online “Gurus” need to take a good hard look at which path their leading their followers down.
Lead with authenticity and honesty and it will take you far!